Identity

Identity, one of the biggest challenges

There are so many factors that add to and take away from our true identity. Influences that can help or harm our identity.

I personally have dealt with this struggle. The most challenging part of my identity struggle was acceptance.

Most of my early adult years I struggled to find my place in the world because I was blinded by drive. I was so driven that I would do whatever it took to make it. Even if that meant adjusting my identity.

My desire to make money and do better in life made me compromise a lot. I found myself lost and unsure of who I really was. I couldn’t look at myself in the mirror because I was always in a rush and so driven to succeed.

Being successful is important but there has to be balance and guidance. Drive is a great characteristic but direction is needed.

I had to learn this the hard way. Now I have peace with my identity because I have gained balance and direction. I now feel comfortable in my own skin and my own path.

The Bible talks about trusting in the Lord and not leaning to your own understanding in Proverbs 3:5-6. This is actually one of my moms favorite scriptures. She says it all the time. I now understand why. This text gives me peace in trusting God with my journey. I don’t have to figure it out or do it on my own. I just have to trust.

My identity is found in the guidance of God. I trust his plans for me and my identity.